Love

If I loved a woman and told her so, regardless what her response was, I would stand by my decision in that I did the right thing. People conspire to step on other peoples deepest feelings too often in this world. That's where the negativity would come from these people.

 If someone loves, or once loved, there is an insidious instinct in people to punish the person if the behavior doesn't align to preconceived assumptions of normal. Those assumptions tend to be very narrow about who should still feel love. Expressing love traverses this statuesque and flys in the face of any kind of mean calculus. Love is always the most valuable expression any human being can dare express.

  If someone humiliates you for loving and laughs at you hold your head up. You probably find yourself at moments like this in a situation where you're not loved back. I'm not advocating stalking the person if they have rejected you. Certain other situations are different from this however. You might be seperated from who you love by other reasons in these situations. If in these circumstances you're mostly sure your love will go unreturned and nonetheless you assert your feelings into the open I'm suggesting you did the right thing and have done nothing wrong!

 

If people want to punish you for being in love, defending love, or believing in love just shrug it off as ignorance by them. It's not an ignorance deserving of verbal punishment perhaps it's just simply that these people are in the dark about loves nature. They may not believe that what overarches all our lives and drives the universe is love.

Going unloved in return is hardly an indicater of you, your worth, or how lovable you really are! If you aren't loved back it's likely the one you think so much of is actually not a great judge of you or allot of things. I say this in a hushed voice to suggest that because of your love and admiration for him or her " that nontheless him or her still may not be a person who's a great guage of character or personality in deciding anything meaningful about you!" In fact most people who get rejected probably really get rejected for very stupid reasons. The ability to know you by the rejecter may seriously be impaired because of their fickle moods, lusts, attitude, concentration, maturity, interests  etc.

You may be rejected, however, some of the time, for signifigant reasons that are all about you. You may have anger issues. You may be negative, nasty, not just to him or her you love but in your general outlook and perspective. Those kinds of negative behaviours are unatractive to allot of people. You may not be interesting in your conversation. You might need to read more, write, develop yourself as a person. The world is competitive but you can do these things. You can compete and be the mature person! That's my two cents on daring to express love.